VRP: Do not talk to the kids that way!		Green: When I heard you call her "stupid" I felt frustrated and angry.
One way to VRP is to tell someone what NOT to do. "Rescuing" a daughter by doing a Persecutor-style ordering will keep the Drama going. "That way" is VRP in its fuzziness, the decoding responsibility residing with the person being told what, "not" to do.		Green is expressed here saying an Observation and a couple of emotions (Feelings).