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More Information Green: When I heard you call her
VRP
: Do not talk to the kids that way!
Green
: When I heard you call her "stupid" I felt frustrated and angry.
One way to
VRP
is to tell someone what NOT to do. "Rescuing" a daughter by doing a Persecutor-style ordering will keep the Drama going.
"That way" is
VRP
in its fuzziness, the decoding responsibility residing with the person being told what, "not" to do.
Green
is expressed here saying an Observation and a couple of emotions (Feelings).
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