VRP: I have to help, because her selfish husband will not.		Green: I am concerned. Her husband said that he needs the car during the day.
If the person being "helped" is able-bodied with resources for her own care, then the effort being talked about is VRP drama. Saying that her "selfish" husband, "will not" is to label and Persecute in the service of being "needed" by the wife in the supposed "have to help" Rescue behavior.		To acknowledge and express concern (Feeling) is Green, as is to report the Observation that the woman's husband has said that he needs the car.