VRP: I'd like you to not be judgmental when you talk to her.		Green: I would like you to tell her in a factual way what she did, in a way that a camera might record, and then tell her specifically what action you would like for her to do next.
It is VRP and judgmental as a Persecutor to tell someone that I would like him or her to "not" "be judgmental."		These Wants are said as "actions that can be pictured being done" in a way such that, if accomplished, will become Observations.