Green Language is an opportunity to change your way of speaking by changing your way of thinking.
We are observed by others by how we speak, the words we use and the impact of our feelings as expressed by our wants in our speech.
Our thoughts and thus our speech are governed by our experience and feelings, it is our feelings database. As we experience our life it reflects in our speech that is produced from our thoughts and memories. When we learn to live in the present and look forward, we have more opportunity to express our thoughts into wants from observations rather than fall into the Victim, Rescuer, Persecutor mode, a method created by and from our past hurtful experiences. This is a dynamic emotional trap that relives the past, even in the present. It continues to go round and round till the end, like a sharp edge that cuts away our love and respect for one another.
Living in the present is an opportunity to Observe our life situations, allow our Feelings to guide and influence our Thoughts in a manner that helps us express our Wants in a fashion that is positive and yet to be judgmental. When we are the parent or the boss or the customer or the spouse, our response regulates and impacts others Feelings.
The power of Green Language is being able to say your Wants in such a fashion that is yet to judge others and impacts them in a way that encourages them to want to do as you say.
I have discovered, learned and found the power of this method of thinking, speaking to be a very enticing part of my communication skills. This Language is so powerful it has changed my life, my ability to communicate with my children, mates and business associates and my ability to be “Happy” more of the time.
One of the most important virtues of life is the ability to forgive. I have learned to forgive those who have hurt me. Using Green Language has helped me to save hurting others when speaking on difficult issues.
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